Usually, girls at the beginning of a relationship think about how to affectionately call their boyfriend. Despite their impulses to come up with a non-standard nickname for the chosen one, the absolute majority of the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity confine themselves to the standard "hare" and "sun", thinking that only this can please him.
Understanding principles of choosing tender words, as well as seeing examples of appeals to guys with different personality traits, it will be easier for a girl to come up with a nickname that her other half will appreciate.
The principles of choosing affectionate words
It is recommended to decide how to name a guy so that he likes it after a careful study of the basic principles for selecting such calls.
- Choose a message that only couples understand or of particular value to both of them. For example, when a girl met, not hearing the guy's surname, she called him in her own way. This interpretation of the data can be used as an affectionate name for your chosen one.
- Use associations. The most sincere and pleasant will be an appeal to a guy, which evokes warm and tender feelings in the girl herself. To choose the right option, you should close your eyes, imagine a hug with your beloved and "pull" the first association associated with the second half from your consciousness.
- Take into account the interests of the young person. For example, if he likes movies and comics about superheroes, it would be most inappropriate to address him, similar to the one already used in his favorite series of his chosen one.
- The appeal must be appropriate... You should not call your boyfriend the first gentle word that comes to mind. It will be much more touching to wait for the situation when such a nickname spontaneously appears in the dialogue. Until this moment, it is best to refer to your second half by name, converting it at will into a diminutive form (for example, instead of "Sasha" use "Sasha").
How to affectionately call a guy at the beginning of a relationship
It is extremely important for men, as well as women, at any stage of a relationship to feel loved, to hear praise, to catch rave glances on themselves. At the beginning of a relationship, the appeal should be as simple as possible, but emphasizing the importance of the guy and the girl's interest in him and his interests.
If it is difficult for a girl to find an appeal for her man, using only her emotions and imagination, she can use general phrases suitable for use at the beginning of a relationship:
- Charm;
- Sladusik;
- Bobblehead;
- Hare;
- Tiger cub;
- Spidey (abbreviated version of the name of the superhero Spider Man);
- Thorn.
Given that at the initial stage of a relationship, a girl still does not fully know the character traits of her chosen one, she should not call him fictitious appeals in the presence of other people (regardless of whose company it is).
Don't use a fake name too often. Excessive "sugaryness" can alienate a person. The nickname should naturally fit into the dialogue of the lovers, without attracting special attention to itself.
Especially carefully it is necessary to select words when communicating in the presence of relatives. When discussing serious topics, you should also call a man by his name, avoiding intimate addresses, which, when discussing a problem, may not only not cause warm feelings, but also provoke irritation.
Affectionate treatment by name
How to call a guy so that he likes it, while not connecting the treatment with the names of animals or heroes of famous films, you can decide by thinking over the options for combinations with his name.
The simplest option is to convert the real name using diminutive suffixes. For example, Artyom can be called Temochka, Artemushka, Artyomchik. Nikita should like the appeal of Nika, Nick, Nikitosik, Nikitushka, and Alexander - Sashulik, Sasha, Sanechka, Sashulechka.
An alternative to a simple name transformation can be a rhyme invented to it. It should be something short, simple, sonorous and pleasing to the ear.
Ideally, the rhymed word or phrase will be meaningful for two members of the couple or arise from a situation that the beloved will remember in the future for a long time.
For example, on one of the dates, a young man named Andrei spilled juice on himself, after which it would be logical and funny for the girl to call him "Andryushka is my beloved pig." By the same principle, Sasha can be called "Sashka-obayashka"; "Sashulya - imagining"; Matvey - “Matvey is the main man of my life”; "Matveyka is a canary" and so on.
Affectionate and unusual
Affectionate and unusual treatment is suitable for people who have been in a relationship for a long time. Only knowing about the character traits of your partner, his hobbies and characteristics, you can choose the right non-standard nickname for him, which not only will not offend, but also cause pleasant emotions.
| An example of an unusual treatment | Who is it for |
| My athlete | So you can call a person who constantly maintains shape and considers his body one of the main advantages. |
| Vesuvius | The name of the volcano can be used to refer to a man with an explosive character and a restless temperament. |
| Style | This is the name for a young man who follows fashion trends and enjoys when others note his style. |
| Playful | This appeal can be used in relation to a sassy man who constantly shows sexual interest in the direction of his other half. |
| My captain | Suitable for a guy who is used to leading his partner with him, to solve all problems, to protect from negative external circumstances. |
| Nut | So you can call a young man with an athletic physique, strong in spirit and stubborn in his intentions. |
Affectionate and original
In order for a guy to like the way the girl calls him, coming up with a nickname, it is worth focusing on the young man's attitude to fictitious appeals.
If he is negative, the other half should not insist on his own and call him what she wants. If a man is loyal or takes the initiative in coming up with "middle names", the girl should also think about how affectionately and originally she can call her chosen one.
| Option to address a man | Who is it for |
| Pelmeshek | So you can call a fat young man who does not consider excess weight to be his disadvantage. Affectionate original nickname will emphasize the fact that the chosen one accepts him for who he is. |
| White | An abbreviated version on behalf of the main character of the acclaimed film Sasha Bely. This appeal applies to men who are constantly in search of adventure, not avoiding conflict and not afraid of fights and physical collisions. |
| Pushkin | This is how you can address a person who likes to communicate about "high things", often using smart words and rhymes in his speech. In addition, it would also be appropriate to name Pushkin a man who is used to telling his life stories "in colors". |
In English
To give a special intimacy to a man, you can use foreign words for this purpose. The only thing that needs to be remembered before introducing such nicknames into a relationship is the level of knowledge of the young man of the language in which he is spoken.
In addition, it is important for a girl to adequately evaluate her pronunciation, avoiding the use of sounds in English words that she cannot correctly reproduce.
| Example of addressing a man | Who is it for |
| My biggest love (eng.) | In translation it sounds like "my greatest love." Ideal as a hint to the guy about the girl's readiness to move to a new stage in the relationship. |
| My dear (eng.) | The phrase translates as "my treasure" or "my dear". So a girl can call her chosen one at any stage of the relationship, thereby emphasizing the seriousness of intentions in relation to him. |
| Sparky (eng.) | This is how you can turn to a radiant person who approaches any life situation with a positive. He not only raises the spirits by his appearance, but is also ready in difficulties to always be there and help his loved ones. |
Lovely words-tenderness
How to name a guy so that he likes it should be decided taking into account the well-established principles of relations between two members of a couple. If a man is used to being addressed by his first name for several months, he will most likely feel uncomfortable hearing an unusual nickname addressed to him.
Psychologists say that affectionate nicknames should be changed periodically to maintain a warm relationship between partners.
As a gentle address, a girl can use cute words formed from the names of animals.
The nickname should characterize the man as accurately as possible, emphasizing the positive aspects of his character:
- Cat, Cat, Kitten, Murlyska, Kisik, Kitten;
- Fish, Rybonka, Rybka, Rybulka;
- Teddy bear, Mishutka, Modvezhenok;
- Tiger, Tiger cub, Tigruska, Tigrulenka, Tigrulenok;
- Leo, Leo, Lion, Lion, Lion;
- Hamster, Homka, Homyachulya;
- Hedgehog, Ezhulkin, Hedgehog.
Appeals to guys with a sense of humor
If a young man has a good sense of humor and occasionally allows himself to make fun of his chosen one, you can also use a nickname in his address, emphasizing the girl's favorable attitude towards the humor of her other half.
It will be funny to call a young man by the names of famous cartoon characters:
- Masyanechkin;
- Luntik;
- Puzyaka;
- Telepuzechkin;
- Smurf;
- Jumping;
- Sladusik;
- Kroshik.
You can also surprise a guy with a sense of humor by applying common nicknames to him, for example:
- Pusyaka;
- Manyunechkin;
- Lapatusik;
- Kisik;
- Purr;
- Fool;
- Goofball.
When using one of the above nicknames for the first time, it is important to assess the young person's reaction to this kind of innovation. If the appeal offends a man or causes indignation (even in a humorous form), the girl should apologize and refuse to use it in the future, while explaining to her beloved the motives for such actions.
What you can't call a guy
Nicknames that are forbidden to use in a relationship between a man and a woman are usually associated with flaws in the person's appearance or character.
A young man's feelings are likely to be hurt if he is called:
- Shorty (if the person is short);
- Giraffe (if a person is tall and shy about it);
- Pie (if a man is overweight and tries to get rid of him in every possible way);
- Sovik or Four-eyed (if the person wears glasses) and so on.
A girl needs to carefully choose words and use nicknames that cause only pleasant associations so that the guy likes her appeal to him. Otherwise, you can unintentionally offend a person, create a reason for a quarrel or form a persistent misunderstanding between two lovers.
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