Human communication is an important and very delicate thing, and communication with the fair sex is even more so. Affectionate words spoken by a guy for a girl in his own words can harmoniously and naturally fit into a relationship, bring people closer ... or irrevocably destroy them.
The tips in this article will help a young man find the best words for his beloved.
Why is it important to say sweet words to a girl?
Affectionate, gentle words are very important for girls and are an integral part of their romantic nature. The female ear needs kind, grateful words, one might say, at the genetic level. The saying that a woman loves with “ears” has its basis and is supported by life.
Even in childhood, girls try to win the attention of boys in various naive ways and in return receive one or another assessment of their "efforts". Growing up, girls change their tactics of conquering the male sex, but they still need marks from boys and men.
Affectionate words and compliments from the stronger sex are the very assessment of female attractiveness and intelligence, which either "inspires and attracts", or "angers and repels."
But some young people are rather stingy with all kinds of "musi-pushi" and, in the end, often suffer from it themselves, because restraint in the manifestation of feelings generates a response, and as a result, a man does not get what he could have in return. In all fairness, it should be noted that the stronger sex, for the most part, also loves affectionate words.
He is also flattered by the feminine attention and confirmation of his masculinity, intelligence and outstanding abilities, expressed in verbal form. And when these words are pronounced by the chosen one, it is doubly pleasant. Therefore, it is not necessary to hesitate to speak affectionate, touching words, they are pleasant and useful to both parties at any time and at any age.
Affectionate and touching words to a girl from a guy from "A" to "Z"
There are no definite and precise forms of affectionate words or phrases. But for this purpose almost any word from the dictionary can be used, even the most, at first glance, inappropriate. For example, the word "dragon", the name of a mystical animal from fairy tales - big, scary and fire-breathing.
If a girl has a quick-tempered character, then it can be applied in a mild form: "dragon" or "dragon". It already turns out to be warmer and softer, although in essence the word does not change its definition. And to make such an appeal to your beloved even more affectionate, you can add the words "mine" and "beloved" to it.
As a result, we got the following - "You are my beloved little dragon!" or "You are my beloved dragon!" Affectionate words for a girl, spoken in their own words, can also be very useful. The phrase mentioned above, for example, will very delicately indicate to the girl her excessive emotionality and “explosiveness”.
Perhaps, over time, she will help "tame" the lady from outbursts of anger and irritation. Of course, it is very important with what intonation the words or phrase are spoken. Such words cannot be spoken with malice or hatred. This largely depends on the relationship already established in the couple, the situation, the emotional atmosphere.
This table shows the most common words and word formations from "A" to "Z" that can and should be used in a particular context. They are pronounced singly, with amplifiers or particles. As a rule, tender words are chosen for a girl depending on the situation, her external, emotional qualities, and sometimes just spontaneously.
In any case, this word or phrase should be "catchy", restrained, playful and affectionate:
- "My beloved sun, you are just a miracle how good today ...";
- “My clear asterisk! Call me when you get home, I'm worried! ”;
- “My cute cat! I love you so much that it even takes my breath away ”;
- “My beauty! You don't even know how dear you are to me. "
When and how to pronounce affectionate words to a girl?
When to pronounce gentle words to a girl is entirely up to the young man. The most unexpected moment can be chosen, and this has its own charm and special strategy. As a rule, a girl feels a moment of special tenderness of a man and is ready to answer him. Much brighter and more spectacular tender words sound spontaneously, as they say out of the blue.
It is possible to show special tenderness and love for a girl in different forms - with the words "eye to eye", in the form of a letter, SMS message, in verse, prose, quote. A compliment can be said on the go, on a romantic date, on the street, at home, in the office, or on the subway. “Where” and “when” does not matter, the most important thing is “how” and from the heart.
Sincere and affectionate words will surely touch the heart of the chosen one, and she will definitely not believe in faceless and cold phrases. The girl will not believe in the words that are said with a "stamp", in the interposition and without an accent. And also in the event that a young man "bestows" such treatment on all, without exception, representatives of the female gender.
Good wishes for the girl in the morning, afternoon and evening
The girl wants to hear gentle words or compliments not only on great holidays, but also in everyday life. To please your beloved, it is enough verbally, looking into her eyes, or even in writing to express to her a few affectionate words. Wishes for a good morning, a good day and a wonderful evening can be said in ordinary words, in the form of a small quatrain or SMS.
Or like this:
- My dear sun! You got up, and the day lit up again with all colors. Good morning, dear! Let the beginning of a new day give you as much joy, warmth and inspiration as you want. And I will think about you every minute and love you with every cell.
- Good day, my affectionate kitten! For such a smart, beautiful girl, he simply has to be kind. I wish you only the best for this day. Let the chores not tire you and the evening will be gentle.
- Good evening, my heart! How I would like to be close and breathe the same air with you. I miss you very much, separation weighs and torments my soul. I wish you a lot of joy and happy moments this evening. I love you endlessly.
Affectionate words for a girl (in your own words or in the form of a verse) do not have to be long, but just a few words, phrases or a beautiful quatrain.
Romantic words for a girl in English and French
Romance in the relationship of young people add words spoken in English or French. It doesn't matter at all if the girl does not know the translation - here the intonation of the voice, the eyes of the lover and, of course, feelings are of decisive importance. The girl will surely appreciate the readiness and intelligence of the young man, and he will significantly "grow" in her eyes.
Here are some simple English words that can substitute for a girl:
- Sweetie is darling.
- Cherry cherry.
- Gorgeous beauty.
- Pumpkin is a cutie. lovely.
- Kitten is a kitten.
- Sugarplum (Sweet Cheeks) - my sweet.
- Babe baby.
- Peanut baby.
- Dumpling cutie.
- Biscuit- cookie.
The phrases in English presented in the table below are also full of romanticism and sensuality. They can be used whenever possible. However, to make a good impression on a girl, the pronunciation of English phrases must be simply impeccable.
Declaration of love in French is fabulously beautiful, because it is considered the language of love. The table below offers some beautiful phrases that will certainly brighten up your love vocabulary. It is possible that these are the phrases Geoffrey de Peyrac said to his beloved Angelica, and he, according to the characters of A. and S. Golon, was an unsurpassed master of seduction.
France is still considered the cradle of love, and Paris is a place of pilgrimage for all couples in love. Therefore, touching and affectionate words in French will not leave indifferent any woman's heart. The French language, like no other, is conducive to love recognition - soft, harmonious, gentle.
If you wish, it will not be difficult to learn a few affectionate, touching phrases. However, the pronunciation will have to work thoroughly.
Funny and kind words to the girl by phone and sms
There is nothing easier to show attention and care to a girl. By sending a short message over the phone, you can write about how beautiful, smart and desirable she is. It will never be superfluous. Rather, on the contrary, such unpretentious and simple phrases will dispose her to a reciprocal step.
Presumably like this:
- Sweet! I want to smell your hair, see your beautiful eyes and touch your tender lips. I miss you very much, dear. Kissing you tenderly.
- Expensive! You are like a precious pearl to me that lies at the bottom of the ocean, secret and inaccessible. Open yourself to me, I will cherish and protect you always. You are my idol, my ideal, my EVERYTHING forever.
- You are as beautiful as a fresh rose. You are smart, kind and generous. How can you not love you? My heart longs, and my soul languishes without you. The minutes of separation are simply unbearable. I live only next to you ...
Affectionate words for a girl in their own words can cheer her up if expressed in a funny and kind address or SMS. What could be better than a positive wish at the very beginning of the day? This gesture will definitely be appreciated and will not be forgotten. It will not be difficult for a young man to find words that will be close and understandable to only two.
Let's say like this:
- Kitty! This morning you were lying on my shoulder like a fluffy and affectionate cat. I felt so nice and healthy at heart. I lay looking at you and thought: “Mur-mur! So this is what happiness you are! "
- Beloved! I definitely won't get bored with you! Yesterday you were angry and sulky at me like an angry chipmunk. Today you are calm and gentle like a tiger. I can't even imagine what will happen tomorrow ... but I would like to know. You are unpredictable and wonderful, I adore all of you!
You can send a beautiful SMS to the girl with the wishes of "good night!":
- My beloved bunny! I hasten to wish you good night and sweet dreams. I will ask your Guardian Angel to take care of your sleep, and I will remember you and represent our future meeting. I love you, my dear.
- My beauty is impossible! I wish you a quiet, good sleep. Beautiful, colorful dreams and wonderful awakening. The next day would rather come, so that I could again see your amazing, clear eyes and again hopelessly drown in them. You are the very best girl on earth ...
- Affectionate nights, wonderful dreams and a warm morning! Dear, the only, my beloved sweetheart! I love you very much, I remember every minute together and look forward to our meeting.
- Kitty! It's time to rest, and now you will curl up into a ball and close your wonderful eyes.Kind words to you, my dear! Oh, how I wish I could be there and just watch this! I love you with all my soul!
You can compose a message for a girl in another way. For example, if you remake a very recognizable and familiar quatrain in your own way, or take an aphorism or "catch phrase" from your favorite movie, comedy, song, cartoon.
Beautiful words to a girl (in your own words, in prose and in verse)
How many poems, poems and prose have been written about love. This theme has always inspired masters of words and just romantics. They expressed their love for a woman in gentle, touching and beautiful words in their works and confessed their feelings without any shame ...
Now young people are somewhat shy about such confessions. Women's nature is very romantic by nature, so such touching poems will definitely be appreciated and accepted. Now, even more so than ever!
In the age of huge speeds, the ubiquitous Internet, when everything is done "on the run", "in a hurry" and "in mid-sentence", the ability to remain gentle and affectionate is almost an artifact. Advice! The first words, an appeal to a girl, are of great importance and affect the entire subsequent conversation.
Therefore, in order to endear the girl to yourself, you need to give the tone of the dialogue with gentle, touching words. Affectionate words for a girl in your own words also need to be able to speak. It so happens that the surging tender feelings suddenly inspire and, among men of few words before that, there are tendencies for eloquence and romantic pathos.
Some young people find wonderful words and present them very beautifully and with great feeling:
- Beloved! Today I realized that since we are together, only you exist in this world for me. I stopped noticing everything around me and live only by our meeting. Everything that interested me before - everything has become petty and unnecessary. Everyone, but not you. Perhaps this is called love. Affectionate, gentle my girl! I would really like you to experience the same amazing feeling that you give me. Thank you for this happiness.
- My bunny! Meeting you changed my whole life. You influenced me so much that I stopped recognizing myself. It looks like some kind of dream. At work, I do things with great enthusiasm that were difficult before. I'm flying home to see you soon. And when I saw, I was hypnotized by the most beautiful eyes in the world. I don't want to leave this wonderful obsession ... I feel so good with you, darling.
- My sunny bunny! You are so beautiful and smart, for which I thank God every day. I have nothing more to ask of him, because I have already received all the best. I am happy that I have you.
Sincere congratulations on your birthday and on a holiday (in your own words, quotes)
How to congratulate your girlfriend on her birthday or on a holiday? After all, I want to say so many beautiful and affectionate words at once! It is better to do it in your own words, but from the heart and with great feeling. There is no need to make up long bravura speeches, but only a few simple sentences with gratitude phrases and heartfelt wishes.
For instance:
- Happy Dnyushechka, my sweet! Sunny, I want to wish you excellent health, everlasting well-being, joy, great human happiness. May the day bring you the brightest impressions and wonderful mood. I wish your home warmth and peace, and your life - goodness and light.
- On your day, Angel wants to saythat you are the best and most wonderful person in the world. I have a reason to say once again to my beloved and the only one that she is the MOST IMPORTANT in my life. Zaya, you are the decoration of my fate, I am so happy with you! There are not enough words to express all my love for you, my dear!
- My darling, my only one! Happy Angel Day! I wish you tremendous, lasting happiness, the strongest health, love and the constant fulfillment of all your innermost dreams! Your life is easy, serene and joyful.Sunny, my love for you forever ...
- Happy Valentine's Day, cat! My beloved beauty, my congratulations to you on our day. I would like to wish you much joy and love under the auspices of St. Valentine. Let everything in your life turn out the way you want it. I want to be with you always and everywhere. May our love never end.
- My dear, beloved! I sincerely congratulate you on Valentine's Day! I want us to celebrate this holiday with you always. For our love to be eternal and beautiful. Let's keep this feeling forever in order to live up to gray hair, but still repeat in our souls with trepidation - "I love you, my joy!".
- My berry! On a good spring day, I want to congratulate you on Women's Day! I wish you a good mood, happiness, joy and all the best. Let adversity and illness pass by, and luck always follows in your footsteps. I will love you forever.
- March 8 - a holiday for all women, and you are the only one in the whole world I wish you to always remain as beautiful and wonderful as you are now. Health, happiness so that it does not diminish, but there was overwhelming joy and luck. May good luck not leave you, and bad weather and bad weather remain outside the door. Remember, relatives! I love you very much.
What words cannot be said to a girl even in jest?
Affectionate words for a girl, spoken in their own words, even in a diminutive form, can be unpleasant and cause protest. It is possible that a young man pronounces them without any trick, but quite the opposite, from the most sincere feelings, but they, like a dagger, cut off a woman's disposition and interest in a man.
For example, the words "bunny", "kitten" or "bunny" have a statistically average image of something fluffy, small and unusually cute. And the same form of another "zoological" image, like "horse", "rabbit" or, say, "hippo" - completely kills the charm of the moment and all kinds of relationships.
However, there are some nuances here. In the "flower-candy" period of the relationship, when the initial acquaintance takes place, a young man should be very careful in choosing affectionate words for his beloved. At this moment, sarcasm and biting jokes are not acceptable, what if the girl turns out to be too touchy or simply does not understand the irony?
Therefore, it is necessary to exclude such words and expressions from the dictionary:
- You are my fool.
- Imp.
- Goat.
- Devil.
- Pyshechka.
- Bun.
- Bomb.
- Revenue.
- Restless mine.
- Intemperate.
- Witch.
- Zaznobina.
- A splinter.
- Sweetheart.
- Shuffle.
- Wretched.
- Hippo.
- Konyashka.
- Goat.
- My misunderstanding.
- Not a warehouse.
When young people have been together for some time, even these words, spoken in one form or another, may be acceptable. Having learned the habits and character traits of each other, such words are simply forgiven or not taken seriously. At the beginning of a relationship, a girl can accept such phrases as an insult, and love can end without even starting.
There are phrases and topics, the analysis or discussion of which women simply categorically cannot stand:
- Appearance and weight.
- Analysis of culinary skills.
- Negativeness about male friends.
- Own business.
- "I'll call you on the weekend."
- "What are we going to do today?"
- "Do you like me?".
- "May I ask you out on a date?"
- "I would like to kiss you."
In addition, girls hate comparing themselves with other representatives of the fair sex, male indecision and lies. Of course, every woman has her own set of pros and cons. However, on average, women do not accept very timid, low-talkative and unfriendly men, and nothing can be done about it.
Affectionate words for a girl are practically jewelry work. Not every young person will be able to insert a touching word, a gentle phrase in his own words, a compliment, and at the right time and with the proper intonation.But this can and should be learned, because such an appeal shows the girl the man's interest in the most serious mutual feelings.
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