First of all, before you dump a guy, think seriously, is this decision spontaneous? Will you then regret looking for a reason to return it? Don't play with the other person's feelings. Leaving go. This should be taken as a basis.
How to leave a guy without offending him
There are no universal advice - here you need to look at the temperament of a particular person. Remember, if you are a girl who seriously hooked on the feelings of a young man, then he will not let you go just like that.
No need to make indulgences, to continue dating out of pity. You acted to him and so more than humanely, thinking about how to leave the guy so that he would not be offended and survive the breakup less painfully.
No need to give up hope!
Feel free to tell your boyfriend about the intention to end the relationship with him. The more you evade the topic, the longer his mental torment will continue. Clearly put the final point!
There is no need to try to explain the reasons, point out his mistakes, because the person will begin to make promises to become different, change for the better, ask him to correct his actions.
Cut such attempts at the root! Otherwise, after parting, you will harbor resentment against each other, become your worst enemies. You have to explain one thing - the feelings have passed, the relationship has become a burden.
Friendly relations
If feelings have faded in both, and you just admitted it first, then the option of friendship is possible.
In other cases, it will be a real torment for him, it's hard to be friends with the person you love. With such friendship, you will only give him a reason to return your relationship.
If he still has tender feelings for you, then:
- Delete his contacts from all social. networks. There is no need to maintain correspondence, look at his new girlfriends (and he, in turn, will watch your amorous affairs).
- Say hello when you meet, but do not stop and tell how you are doing.
- Do not allow "last date", "last kiss", "last time go to the club together." This will only prolong the agony.
- After breaking up, you don't need to make the guy jealous, or try to cheat on him so that he dumps you in response. First, your reputation as a girl will suffer, and secondly, weak people do this.
- Don't gossip about your ex-boyfriend! This is mean.
If you are a very timid girl, and you cannot say Everything in the face of a guy, then try this method: make the guy dislike you and he will leave you first.
You can give free rein to your imagination - stop following the rules of hygiene (smell bad), not dress nicely, nag him for nothing, roll up scenes of jealousy, in other words, do everything so that he understands that you are not worthy of him!
For timid girls, we offer the following plan of action, how best to leave the guy and put a beautiful point on:
- Better meet on neutral territory. The place shouldn't be deserted. Let it be a cafe.
- Call your boyfriend, tell him that you need to have a serious talk (do not report your intentions on the phone, you need to do this eye-to-eye).
- When starting a conversation, make a serious face, no smiles are needed. Tell them you regret it happened. This will soften the blow.
- If a guy starts to insult you, then he wants to hurt you out of resentment. No need to respond in kind.
- Now you can just get up and leave. There is no need to stir up memories, to catch up on melancholy.
Do not live in past relationships, do not keep a person next to you. whom you don’t love. Better to let it go early. Believe me, over time he will understand that everything is being done only for the best.
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