You can cheer up a guy you like not only in person, but also by correspondence. You can do this with a kind word or with the help of a picture, video, smiles, jokes. Such timely support will help not only indicate your sympathy for a person, but also give him strength to overcome life's difficulties, as well as strengthen an emotional connection with him.
How to please a guy you like from a distance by correspondence
Cheering up a pen guy is the most important task for girls who have been at a distance with their lover for a long time. Psychologists often compare men to children. This is due to the fact that both one and the other quickly get tired of the monotony in relationships or communication in general.
To warm up the guy's interest, it is recommended to build your correspondence with him, taking into account the recommendations of experts:
- Girls are encouraged to tell a man about all the little things that happen in life. In the morning, you can tell about your plans for the day, at lunchtime you can share your mood, and in the evening you can talk about how the day went. This recommendation will help partners stay in touch with each other's affairs, and also maintain the rhythm of the life of a loved one. You can talk while on the road or during a break during the working day. This will help create a feeling for the guy that he is needed, that he is loved and remembered about him every minute. In such conversations, you can describe both significant events and the little things that make up the day, for example, beautiful places in the city or how the girl was received by a new team at work.
- A girl should call and write messages daily. Long breaks in communication contribute to the distance between partners from each other. In this matter, it is important to observe the measure. Too frequent SMS can start to annoy the guy, since during the day he is also likely to be busy with work or some important things.
- Avoid over-control. In conversations, it is important to talk about yourself, periodically asking general questions to the interlocutor. Excessive control can lead to the fact that the man begins to hide facts from his life from the girl, which will entail a weakening of the emotional connection and the distance between partners from each other.
- Send your photos periodically. Men love with their eyes, which means that even at a distance, it is important to warm up his interest in his person.
- Make unexpected gifts. It doesn't have to be expensive. A man will be pleased to receive attention in any case.
- It is necessary to organize unexpected meetings at least once a week. This can be either an unexpected visit to a guy's house, or a meeting with him from work or a spontaneous offer to go to a restaurant for dinner.
Cool SMS so that you don't feel sad
To cheer up a guy, you can write him a cool SMS. It is best to compose the text for the message yourself. If the girl currently does not have ideas for composing an email message to her man, you can use ready-made options from the Internet.
Such templates can be adapted to the specific situation and personality traits of the young person. If there are several SMS options you like, you can save them in a text document on your computer in order to please your man again with a cheerful message after a while.
For the convenience of sending messages, there are special services in which this can be done using a computer and the Internet. It is important to read the terms and conditions carefully before sending your message. Otherwise, the addressee will have to spend 200-300 rubles for one SMS.
Some of the most popular SMS templates used by girls as the basis for their future message are:
| SMS option | a brief description of |
| Hello. I am an SMS tasked with sending you a billion of the sweetest and most tender kisses! | This message can be used if the girl and the boyfriend are in a love relationship. If the young man who needs to be cheered is a friend to the girl, the word "kisses" can be replaced with "hugs". |
| Honey, get out of my mind. You interfere with work. | It is appropriate to send such a message in the middle of the working day, as a reminder to the young man that he is loved and awaited to meet him. |
| Do you believe that you can lose your head by falling in love at first sight? Or should I catch your eye one more time? | With such an SMS, a girl can not only cheer up a young man, but also hint at sympathy on her part. When sending this message, it is important to think through all the possible options for the guy's answers. This will help prevent an embarrassing situation if the recipient of the message does not reciprocate. |
| How's the first guy in the village doing? | This SMS can be addressed to a young man, regardless of whether the relationship between him and the girl is friendly or loving. |
Cheer in VK
You can cheer up a guy by correspondence not only with the help of SMS, but also during VKontakte communication. The advantage of using this method is the ability to leave your message not only in a personal message, but also to make a confession publicly (by writing a text on the wall of the young person's account).
There are several ways to cheer up a man on VKontakte:
- Describe a real (or fictional) funny story that happened to the girl herself or someone from her acquaintances the other day.
- Send a gift with a funny message attached to it. Despite the fact that in the vast majority of cases, VKontakte gifts are paid, they cost no more than 50 rubles.
- Send a funny picture with a phrase that the young man can understand. In the absence of a suitable option in the public domain, you can make such a picture yourself on free sites.
You can cheer up the pen guy by sending him a cool postcard - Send a funny video or video that matches the interests of a particular young person. Videos can be selected from previously uploaded VKontakte or downloaded independently from other resources.
- Send a video message of a personal nature. The girl herself records the video. If the girl is too shy and squeezed to record such an appeal, you can record a voice appeal, voicing a confession or telling a joke in this way.
It is recommended to choose the structure of the message in accordance with the algorithm:
- Understand whether the message should have a loving connotation, be a confession, or just act as friendly support.
- Determine the purpose of the message (to support, cheer, confess feelings, and so on).
- Choose an appropriate time (for example, a young man's lunch break).
- Find a template that can be used as a basis for a future message (if the girl plans to send text in a VKontakte message).
Options for text messages on a social network can be:
| VK message option | a brief description of |
| For your sake, I will do everything, even with you I will watch how 22 peasants run in shorts for one ball across the field. What time is football today, you say? | If the topic of football is not of interest to a particular young person, the message can be rewritten by veiling also another sport or game on a console. |
| Hello! How are you feeling: nerves, heart, pulse, stomach, back? How are you, my dear man? | Such a message can be sent to VK both to a friend and to a young man or husband. It will not only lift your spirits, but also provoke a detailed response, highlighting the importance of a man in the eyes of his other half or girlfriend. |
What to send to WhatsApp?
You can cheer up a pen guy not only on social networks and with SMS, but also in communication using instant messengers. One of the most popular communication applications among modern smartphone users is What’s App.
With its help, it is possible not only to send text messages, but also to cheer up your interlocutor with the help of pictures and videos of a personal nature. The advantage of communication in this format is the option to automatically save media content in the user's gallery.
Despite the fact that all messages in the messenger are protected by encryption (according to the creators of the application), once a situation has already arisen when people's correspondence was posted on the public Internet. Based on this, it is highly discouraged to throw off a photo of an intimate nature for a young man.
It is necessary to compose the text for messages to WhatsApp taking into account the fundamental principles:
- It is not recommended to write a message to a man and at the same time do household chores. This contributes to the dissipation of attention, due to which the girl may miss a significant detail from the conversation with her opponent.
- You should not endow messages in instant messengers with hidden meaning. A young man can read a message in a hurry and not just fail to understand its meaning and offend the girl with his indifference, but even get angry with the addressee.
- No need to wait for a response from a guy after sending him a message. The young man may be busy at work or planning to call the girl later and invite her to dinner.
The most popular phrases that can be used as text or voice messages sent via messenger are:
| Option messages | a brief description of |
| Come home as early as possible, dear. There you will find sweets, hugs and one dearest ... (girl's name) - a bailiff. | This message not only cheers up a man, making him smile, but also arouses warm feelings in him towards a girl. Thanks to positive emotions, a man will most likely want to please his other half, for example, after work he will stop by to buy flowers for his girlfriend. |
| It seems to me that our relationship is ripe for the transition to the next stage and has become more serious. Can we get a little ... kitten? | This message can be divided into several parts and sent the last part when a note appears in the chat that the interlocutor is typing a message. Thus, the man will experience a whole range of emotions, due to which he will shift the focus from a negative mood to a more positive one. |
Ideas for telephone conversation
Cheering a pen guy is harder than making a phone call.
In the second case, with closer contact, the girl will be able to feel the mood of her interlocutor, and promptly correct the initially set tone of the dialogue (for example, if a man, being in a depressed state, begins to get angry that the girl is joking and laughing instead of empathizing and providing moral support).
When conducting a dialogue on the phone, a girl should pay special attention to the reaction of the young man. If his bad mood persists even after several attempts to cheer him up, you should not continue communication at that moment.
When a man is silent, answers in monosyllables, or gets angry and begins to be rude, it is best to end the conversation as soon as possible, and then give him time to experience his emotions on his own.Guys, unlike girls, are less willing to share their experiences, preferring to keep them inside and deal with them alone.
Ideas for starting a telephone conversation with a young person might include:
| Dialogue option | a brief description of |
| Darling, are you sad? I'm calling to cheer you up. Keep in mind, if you can't do it this way - come, I'll pick up everything that lies! | Use this sexually suggestive message with your boyfriend or husband. Thoughts about a pleasant continuation of the evening will brighten up the young man's condition and strengthen his desire to be home as soon as possible. |
| Darling, I have a request. Please pick me up after work / school / shop! Otherwise I seem to have forgotten my flying whisk at home today. | Such a conversation will make a man smile and take his mind off sad thoughts for a while. The ability to laugh at yourself is very valuable for a girl. Knowing how touchy women can be, a young man most likely will not miss the opportunity to encourage his beloved for the self-irony shown in the conversation. |
Creative ideas
The quickest way to cheer up a guy is to put creative ideas into practice. This can be done both by correspondence and in personal or telephone communication.
Ready-made options can be found on the Internet and adapted to the interests of a particular person and the characteristics of a specific relationship:
| Creative ideas | a brief description of |
| "Bunny missed you" | This option involves a girl recording a video message addressed to her boyfriend. To implement it, you need:
As an alternative to this option, you can use special masks that are automatically applied to the girl's face when using the application. |
| Poem / song / fairy tales | An unexpected surprise for a man will be a poem or song written by a girl herself. In the absence of relevant skills, you can order a work in special campaigns, in which specialists, according to the conditions set by the customer, implement full-fledged projects. The cost of such services varies from 3000 to 7000 rubles. In the absence of financial opportunities and the inability to create poems, you can write a short fairy tale, the main characters of which will be a girl and a guy who are in a relationship and bear the same names as the members of a particular couple. |
It is recommended to choose a creative idea strictly in accordance with the interests and preferences of the guy for whom the girl wants to cheer up.
For example, if a young man is romantic, a video message with an intimate subtext may not only not cheer you up, but also aggravate the situation by the fact that the man will focus on the thought of an excessive difference in interests and thinking with his other half.
Unusual options
Unusual choices of words to please a pen guy are:
| Unusual text message options | a brief description of |
| “- Hi, I just thought that only 3 things can cheer me up. Can you guess which ones? -… (young man's answer). - SMS from the bank about the receipt of money on the account, sunny weather and a call or a message from you. | This type of dialogue will be appropriate both when communicating between a guy and a girl who are in a love relationship, and between those who are friends. This is an unobtrusive, easy format for people to communicate that can cheer up and strengthen the emotional connection between opponents. |
| “You are so courageous, brutal and bossy. And I am small, weak and in need of a reliable shoulder by my side. Always be with me, please. With you I have nothing to fear and nothing to worry about. " | These words will make the young man smile and also increase his self-confidence. Feeling attractive, a man will gain the strength necessary to cope with life's difficulties and problems along the way. |
By correspondence, girls can find it difficult to express their emotions, support or cheer a guy. This is due to the fact that, without seeing the expression on your opponent's face, it is not always possible to accurately interpret his mood and reaction to specific words.
Despite the existing risk of aggravating the condition of a young man by untimely changing the direction of the conversation, in the vast majority of cases, words of support, regardless of their form, significantly improve a man's mood and strengthen an emotional connection with his chosen one.
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