Confessing love to a guy in your own words can be done in different ways. The growth of sympathy into strong feelings is an exciting event. And at such a moment, it is not necessary to invent numerous plans to confess your feelings to a young man.
Rules for confessing love to a guy
For successful recognition, it is better to take into account some rules:
- Wait for the right moment when the guy is in a good mood. It should not be ruled out that everyone is in a bad mood: problems with studies, quarreled with his family, reprimand at work. Getting into a relationship is taking on another responsibility. In this situation, the young man will not be ready to take this step. The best option is to choose a relatively calm day for him, when both will have a good and relaxed mood. Absolutely inappropriate moments: after intimacy, while drinking, after a quarrel.
- Find a cozy place where you can talk in private. The best relationship starts with friendship. Friends often have special or favorite places known only to them. The main thing is that it should be deserted and correspond to the desired atmosphere.
It is better to confess your love to a guy on a convenient and romantic occasion. - Stick to naturalness. The desire to create a romantic mood can backfire. Correctly chosen words and true feelings will help convey your urge to the young man. Eliminate pathos and bombast.
- Calm down. If you do not have the courage to say directly that you love someone, you can replace this phrase with “in love”, “I like spending time with you”, “you make me very happy”, “I need you”. At the moment of a conversation, it is important to look your partner in the eyes, to show him your sincerity and the feelings you are experiencing at the moment.
- Phone confession, message or letter also has the right to be. You should use this method only if it is impossible to meet in person in the near future. The stronger the feelings, the more they make themselves felt. It is very difficult to keep the whole flow of emotions in oneself, I want to share them with my beloved as soon as possible.
What can you say to a guy during a declaration of love
A declaration of love to a guy in his own words has to be done in the case when a man does not take the first step. They may have their own reasons for this, so sometimes the cherished words are first uttered by the girls.
Words should be prepared in advance so that everything goes clearly and according to plan. You cannot rely on improvisation, specifically in this matter, she will not be an assistant.
Include pleasant compliments and a little flattery in your speech. Do not overdo it with them, name only the really positive qualities of the guy.
Focus on your feelings and sensations when he is around. Men like to feel strength and some superiority over women. Suffice it to say that only next to him is it possible to feel completely safe. Emphasize his attentiveness, sensitivity and care for his person.
But guys prefer to love with their eyes, so you need to emphasize your sincerity and innocence. Whatever words are said, be sure to look in the eyes and smile sweetly.
Confessions of love to your beloved man in your own words to tears
Today, no one is surprised by the recognition from the girl. But a woman needs to thoroughly prepare for this step.
Letter
Communication technologies allow you to send a message from information in a matter of seconds. Therefore, a love letter, beautifully designed and written with your own hands, will be an excellent option for sensual recognition that can move you to tears.
It should be borne in mind that after sending the letter, you can no longer change anything, add or wrap everything up as a joke... Therefore, words are carefully selected, the design and delivery of the letter are thought out in advance.
It is mistakenly believed that writing the entire flow of your emotions and feelings is the perfect letter for such a confession. Girls who consider such an attempt to be the most honest in relation to their partner can only aggravate the situation by confusing the young man.
A person, under the influence of emotions, does not always notice that he could use “unnecessary” words that can bring negative consequences. Therefore, the first draft of a written letter will not always be good. It is better to make several letters and choose the most successful one.
The finished version should be read a few more times and postponed until the next day. And if tomorrow the girl will still like the letter after reading it again, then you can send it to the young man. Do not forget about beautiful handwriting and spelling, especially if the guy is literate. Confession can be delivered through friends, put in a mailbox, or in person.
Poem
Most poets used their talent as a declaration of love for beautiful ladies. A girl who knows how to write poetry can use her lover as an inspiration to openly and boldly express her feelings.
Declaring love to a guy in your own words with the help of a poem is not easy, especially in the absence of the appropriate talent. Here you can take a ready-made verse and try to write your creation based on it.
The lack of rhyme is not scary, the main thing is to convey your feelings beautifully and be able to correctly convey them to a person. The guy will definitely appreciate the efforts, because such an act is very brave, this cannot be overlooked.
The poem written must be presented effectively, and best of all in person. If there is a lack of courage or the presence of a strong fear that you can forget some words, you can also convey the poem by letter or by telephone conversation.
It is not recommended to use email or message.
A young man will not be able to rule, place the necessary pauses and emphasize those words that the girl herself would like to highlight. You must read the poem yourself. Another option is to send by voice message on a social network.
Lettering under the window
It is relevant when a guy lives in a multi-storey building. You can do it yourself or ask for help from those who draw well.
This method will certainly surprise and move the guy.
SMS declaration of love
Making a confession by SMS is one of the easiest and most affordable ways. But here, you should take into account some points, because all guys are different. Before writing an SMS, you first need to decide who the young man is for the girl.
Close friend
The most important thing is to understand how her friend really treats the girl. After all, he can also love, but only as a friend. Or, on the contrary, he sees in her a beautiful girl, but is afraid to admit his feelings, believing that for her, too, is just a friend.
It is not so difficult to understand his true attitude, as the guy always makes hints that are not quite suitable for just a "friend". He gave flowers for no reason, often escorts him home, stares intently.These are all signs that the guy likes the girl a lot. In this case, you can safely write your confession to the young man. But it's better to write it in your own words, and not copy from the Internet.
When there are no such hints, then there is an option that the guy is just very shy. And if a girl does not want to suffer from uncertainty, then it is better to immediately confess her feelings and not be upset in case of refusal.
The SMS itself should contain the following points:
- Emphasis on a serious conversation so that the young man does not doubt that the girl is not joking at all and that this is very important for her.
- Description of the best qualities of the guy, emphasizing the fact that it is no longer possible to perceive him as just a friend.
- What does a girl feel when she is with him in the same company. How dear he is to her.
- The very recognition.
In any confession, you can add a description of some wonderful moments lived together to emphasize the fact that the girl really cares about the time spent next to the young man.
Just a familiar guy
With this option, the recognition focuses on one's own sincerity. You can just lay out your feelings for what they are. The guy in any case will be pleased to read what was written in your hand, and not made a copy from other sources.
If you have a special talent (the ability to write poetry, draw), you can make an original confession in the form of a postcard with a poem of your own composition.
The guy is a classmate
Before you admit your feelings to such a person, you should carefully weigh the pros and cons. No one can guarantee that a girl's feelings will not be made fun of by the whole class. But then there is no need to carefully select words and compose a whole poem. In SMS, it is enough to say about the feelings that have arisen and emphasize, thanks to which they appeared.
A declaration of love to a guy in your own words must be done sincerely and from the very heart. Only then will the impulse be appreciated and correctly perceived.
Declarations of love in prose
People very rarely have the courage to confess their feelings to their beloved. Especially girls... The fear of appearing immodest to many prevents them from taking the first step. But you can express your feelings not in direct text, but with the help of prose.
This cute and original form of recognition will convey deep emotions and will not leave a young man indifferent to a girl. For prose, it is easier to find words, it is enough to describe your true feelings, adding at the end what exactly from this person you would like to see next to you.
Confession in verse
The features of the declaration of love in verse have already been described above. For those with talent, this method will be ideal for expressing feelings for their beloved.
If you have difficulties with inspiration, you can build on the following points:
- Impressions of a girl when she is next to a guy.
- Whether their meeting is considered fateful.
- Surprises and happiness with his appearance in her life.
Well, and to emphasize that for her he is the most beautiful, best and desirable, because the opposite sex is also pleased to listen to compliments in his address.
How to confess your love at a distance
It is very difficult to endure separation from a person who you like very much. Especially when the beloved is at a distant distance. Guys really like it when a girl maintains a relationship with them through letters or SMS.
Therefore, the option of a declaration of love, when the object of adoration is not nearby, is also worth considering. Here you can mention together the moments experienced and how much the girl misses the guy.
Long confessions
Long confessions are most appropriate, when a girl is sure that her chosen one has feelings for her, but is not able to be the first to take a step forward. There are many reasons for the appearance of such uncertainty, so it is worth describing in detail your emotions, attitude towards the young man, what he likes, what positive qualities he has.
You should be prepared for the fact that the recognition will catch the young man by surprise.
And he won't be able to give an answer right away. Do not despair, it is enough to give the guy time to think it over and decide to reciprocate.
Short confessions
When a girl gets tired of being in constant uncertainty about whether her lover has feelings for her or not, then a short confession can be used. It should simply indicate that the girl has liked this person for a long time, and she would like to know if her feelings are mutual.
It is better to immediately receive reciprocity or rejection than to waste time on false illusions. You should not blame the guy for his indecision or reticence in the confession, especially if he refuses.
How to confess your love, depending on the status of a man
Declaring love to a guy in your own words, who has a wife, is a difficult task. You can write about your feelings in a letter or note. And leave your recognition where the spouse of the beloved will definitely not be able to see.
After all, the girl's task is to convey her emotions to the person, and not to cause him trouble. It will turn out ugly if he truly loves his wife, and this recognition can destroy family relationships.
An interesting option would be to admit it on Valentine's Day. Here you can either meet in person and talk about your feelings, or give a valentine. If you don't have the courage to do it yourself, you can always ask your friends for help.
There may be problems with recognition to a man who is several years older than the girl. He obviously was in a relationship more than once, so it is necessary to confess so that the beloved is in admiration. The best option is the surprise effect.
Call in the middle of the day (the main thing is to know that at the moment you are not busy with anything serious) and communicate your feelings. If it turns out to interest men, then he will definitely show a positive reaction.
How to confess your love without words
The most effective way to express your feelings without words is through the language of color. You can send any symbolic drawing, painted with certain colors, and make a hint at the interpretation of the selected colors.
Color symbology has the following characteristics:
- The black. Expression of sadness and distress. Hopelessness.
- Blue. Emphasizes devotion and loyalty to a person.
- Yellow. Transfer of joy and good mood.
- Purple. It will emphasize the status and importance of the person.
- White. Innocence and sincerity of intentions.
- Red. Strong passion and strong love.
Declaration of love with a bard song
You can confess your love to a guy in your own words with the help of a song if you have good hearing and voice. 
It is important to choose the right song or write your own so that the girl can express the emotions overcoming her. Do not forget about the English version of the song, if the beloved knows this language.
What topics and phrases are best avoided
In any confession, there are always topics and phrases that should not be touched upon:
- To love for something. You should follow the wording and say not "I love you for that ...", but simply emphasize the dignity of the young man. That he is smart, handsome, kind, will always support, etc.
- Don't compare to your ex, if you have one. The topic of "ex" always carries negative emotions, and if you compliment your beloved, emphasizing his dignity against the background of the previous gentleman, this will not lead to a good result.
- During the confession, you can't put pressure on the guy and immediately demand an answer from him.
Confessing your love to a guy in your own words is not considered something vicious or wrong. It is always better to take a step towards a possible future relationship than to constantly languish in uncertainty and wait for the unknown.
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