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How to please a guy on a first date
There are simple enough, but very significant rules to please a man on a first date, but not everyone knows and adheres to them. Let's take a look at them in detail.
Rule # 1. Don't change your appearance beyond recognition.
If a man called you to a meeting, it means that he already likes you the way you are now. Do not try to drastically change your appearance before meeting him. There is no need to change your hair color, apply too bright makeup if you have not used it before, or change your usual style of clothing.
Rule # 2. Give a nice comment about the place you were invited to.
Even if you are not very impressed with the place where the guy invited you, or it does not coincide with your interests at all, do not show it to him. Tell the young man that this is a great meeting place or that you have long wanted to visit.
Rule # 3. You don't need a lot of alcohol.
If you do not want to appear in front of your boyfriend in a bad light, do not drink a lot of alcoholic beverages. Alcohol in large quantities can damage your reputation with your young man. It will be better if you drink a glass of wine or champagne during the evening, but no more.
Rule number 4. Try to look his eyes.
In a conversation with a guy, try to look into his eyes more often, do not lower them down, this will only show your disrespect for the young man and will forever put an end to your relationship that has not yet begun.
Rule # 5. Remain a mystery.
At the first serious meeting, try to behave with a guy as restrained as possible, you do not need to hang yourself on his neck, and even more so rush to him with kisses. You should not behave very loosely, the young man may think that you are too frivolous.
Rule # 6. Don't make a date - interrogation.
There is no need on the first date with a man to arrange him an interrogation, such as: what girls does he like? how many of them did he have? why did you leave each one? and that sort of thing. And especially, don't ask him what his earnings are.
First, he still won't tell you the truth. Secondly, it can cause him some thoughts, well, you yourself understand what.
Rule # 7. No ex-boyfriends.
Never mention your ex-boyfriends, and especially don't compare the young man with them. This will be extremely unpleasant for him, and besides, the young man may think that you are still thinking about your old relationship. Also, saying bad things about your ex-boyfriend can give the impression that you will be discussing that too.
Rule # 8. Don't complain about your life.
Of course, sometimes you really want someone to listen to you, feel sorry for you. However, there is no need to cry into a guy's waistcoat on the first date. Do not start complaining to him about how hard it is for you in life, that you are always unlucky, tell him how unhappy you are and the like. No guy needs a girl - misfortune.
Rule # 9. Who pays?
You should not, when the waiter brings you the bill for dinner, find out with the young man who will pay it.If a guy paid for two, that's good, then everything is going as it should, and he likes you. You don't have to look into his wallet and go into details of the amount on the check for dinner.
Rule # 10. Give thanks for the evening.
When your date comes to an end, very casually thank the young man for a good evening. Tell him that you were very comfortable and pleasant with him. And, of course, be moderately modest, sociable, keep a conversation with the guy, behave naturally, and then the man will want to continue communicating with you.
When going on a first date with a young man, be sure to remember these, on the one hand, simple, but the most important tips on how to please a guy on a first date. They will help you not to make stupid mistakes, as well as win the heart of your man with whom you want to be together.
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