What to write to a pleasant man in SMS, that he missed after a long silence, sexy at night, the first on a dating site. Relationship psychology

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For men, according to psychologists, it is important to know that they are admired and valued. So they feel more confident and ready to protect their beloved. Therefore, in response to a noble deed, you can write a pleasant message.

Sending options and message writing rules

In the modern world, live communication is gradually being replaced by gadgets and social networks, and more and more often people send text messages to each other to express emotions. A competent syllable and the correct construction of sentences are of great importance.

Before you write a message to your chosen one, you should familiarize yourself with the basic rules of correspondence:

Don't use complex turns... In most cases, men dismiss such messages by responding briefly “understandable” or using emoticons.
Do not twist your opponent's words and do not come up with too much... Guys usually say what they think. They will not put hidden meaning into words. If the interlocutor says that he is tired at work, this does not necessarily mean that he was in the company of a blue-eyed blonde.
Eloquent phrases do not necessarily indicate the positive qualities of the chosen one.... His written speech can flow with music, but in fact the man will turn out to be an ordinary womanizer.
Sometimes the guy is laconic, but in everyday life he is a great conversationalist and devoted companion... It should be remembered that not everyone is a writer.
If there is no answer for a long time, there is no need to be upset ahead of time... The partner may have important conversations or the phone may be out of power.
Writing first is not a shame... It's not the 19th century to be embarrassed at the sight of a male face. But it is not recommended to send more than one message, so as not to be seen as annoying.

Cellular communication works well, all messages reach the addressee... There is no need to duplicate SMS, thinking that the mobile operator does not deliver them on purpose.
Do not quarrel in messages... If there are mutual claims, it is better to discuss them one-on-one.

Wishes

Almost every guy is happy to receive an original congratulation on a holiday. The words should be felt sincerity and willingness to support at any moment.

Men will be delighted with such wishes:

There are millions of guys in the world, but being real is not so easy. I'm sure you deserve this title. Always stay the same courageous.
Happy Holidays, dear. I wish you faithful friends on the way and good luck in all your endeavors. You never give up, and this is the main male quality.
May every day be better than the previous one, the smile never leaves the face, and love fills the soul.
Everything that is done is for the best. Under any circumstances, listen to your heart and do not look back.
With your outlook on life, you have made the world a better and kinder place. You know how to support and will never leave you in trouble. You perfectly combine masculine attractiveness, positive attitude and love for the world. Let your eyes always shine with happiness!

Reminders

Now the manifestation of initiative comes evenly from both men and women.

But girls should remember that excessive obsession with correspondence is badly perceived by society.

To tactfully remind you of yourself, you can use the following cheat sheets:

The phone is broken, all contacts have been deleted. Call me to write down your number.
If a person does not call for a long time, a feeling of resentment arises. If a person stops communicating, indifference appears.
Any deed can be forgiven as long as it is not remembered.
For some reason, I remembered a good proverb: "Talk less, do more."
It's great when the past doesn't resonate in the soul.

Apology Messages

There are times when it is advisable to ask for forgiveness from a dear person.

These tips will be great help in writing your apology text:

Being alone is very bad for me. This quarrel gave a reason to think about our relationship. I rethought everything and realized that you are the best. Let's resolve any differences peacefully.
Forgive me for being rude, for offended by chance. I often dream of your lips, forgive everything and come.
I understand that it is difficult to forgive me. But I promise to continue to restrain my emotions and not be capricious about trifles. I send you a thousand kisses.
It's so scary to fall asleep at night when you are not with me. Let all the sorrows go away, I will very much wait for an answer.
My heart refuses to believe that we are no longer together. Come back to me and don't be angry. I will do everything to become the best for you.

Romantic Messages

With a few sentences, you can confess your love.

Here are some examples:

I found comfort the moment we met.
Your name is the most consonant, it rings in my ears with an affectionate song every minute.
Butterflies flutter in my soul, and my lips all the time remember the taste of your sugar kisses.
What a joy to be with you, what a joy to hug you. I don't need anything else in my life, just wake up in the morning loving.

Nothing in the world attracts like the thought of our joint future.

Night messages

What to write a pleasant man before bedtime:

Falling asleep alone is cold. Only memories of our meetings warm up. Thank you for filling me with love.
Honey, let you have magical dreams. Although we are not in the same bed, but I feel your care and support.
Have a nice sleep. The new day will surely be easy, because I believe in you.
People close their eyes before going to sleep because they want to sleep. And I'm doing this to meet you again tomorrow.
So you want to fall asleep in your arms and never let you go. Now I know what happiness is, because I managed to find it.

How to write an SMS to a guy so that he likes it?

What to write a pleasant man to increase his self-esteem, most women think. You can write pleasant messages not only to a close man, but also to someone you have met recently.

Below is some information to look out for when writing a correct message:

To praise the appearance of the chosen one more often. You can write like this: "You are incredibly brave", "Your smile is maddening" or "It seems to me that one day I will drown in your eyes."
Mention the strengths (talents) of the chosen one: “From your poems I want to embrace the whole world”, “The barbecue was amazing. I admire your culinary skills ”,“ You are the best football player ”.
Thank you for any act, even the most insignificant one: “Thank you for a wonderful evening, you are a wonderful companion”, “Breakfast in bed is so sweet. Thank you for taking care of me "," I am very grateful to you for the wonderful flowers. "
Celebrate the partner's masculinity: "When you are near, I feel peace and tranquility", "I know that your hands will protect me at the right time", "Behind you, like behind a stone wall."
Guys love girls with a sense of humor. You can send comic messages: “Do not be afraid of your hidden fantasies. Fear mine! ”,“ If you do not receive an answer to this SMS in 2 seconds, you will owe me 200 passionate kisses ”,“ You are convicted of stealing. You have stolen my heart forever. "

Message to a man after a long silence

There are many ways to get a man's attention.

Here are some of them:

Intriguing letter: “If you continue to ignore me, you will not know the main thing”, “I was told this about you! I had no idea that this is possible "," How could you do this? I can not believe it". But don't go too far. Blackmail and manipulation is not the best way to renew a relationship.

Compliments: “You don't have to answer. But remember: it was very good with you "," As long as you keep silent, I remember your muscular body "," I do not forget about you for a minute. "
Ask for help... You need to come up with something realistic. For example, a tap has broken, and without water it is impossible to do anything. It is better to ask persistently, while admiring the golden hands of the chosen one.
Recall important life events: “How is grandfather's health?”, “Do you remember the restaurant where our first date took place? Yesterday I passed by, but everything turned upside down in my soul ”,“ Today our favorite film is being broadcast on TV ”.
Support: “You can always count on me. I will come to the rescue in any situation "," I am mentally with you. Everything will be fine!".

By writing such letters, a woman will show herself from the best side. Most likely, the man will answer, and, possibly, make an appointment.

The first message to a guy on a dating site, in social networks

Getting acquainted on the Internet, it is better to refuse uninteresting, monotonous questions. In order for the guy to be "hooked" by the interlocutor, it is worth writing something original. For example: “Are you bored? In the next couple of hours I can brighten up your loneliness "," I recognized you! You are the most positive man in the world ”,“ I could not pass by your profile. Let's talk".

It is not recommended to ask direct questions about the place of work of the interlocutor.

The best option would be the following message: "Would you agree to deliver pizza 23 hours a day, seven days a week with a payment of 2 billion rubles?" Also, don't ask how your opponent treats pets. The text of the letter should look like this: "Did you often play with kittens and puppies as a child?"

"How do you feel about travel?" - not the best question for an unfamiliar person. It can be paraphrased: "Do you prefer a beach or active type of recreation?" The dialogue should be catchy, without hackneyed phrases and unnecessary complaints about life. Communicating in this way, the girl automatically attracts attention.

Pleasant words to a man in the morning

A man can be anywhere: near or at the other end of the country. You can cheer up without a personal presence.

You just need to write pleasant words in the message that the chosen one will not disregard:

This sunny morning I want to share with you a portion of a wonderful mood.
Good morning! May your day be easy, and all matters are resolved positively.
I am sending you a gentle hug. They will keep you warm throughout the day.
If you feel sad, just remember that I love you madly!
I just woke up, but I already miss you. Have a nice day!

Nice nightly messages with sexual connotations

Erotic messages "warm up" the love affair and do not let it weaken. They must be in any relationship.

What to write to a nice man in SMS, after a long silence, at night, on a dating site — Various things that you can write to a pleasant man in SMS, the main attention.

Below is a selection of such messages:

I really want to become your blanket, so that I can touch your strong shoulders all night long and kiss your velvet skin.
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine that I am there. My fragile body pressed against you, you feel my passionate breath and feel the gentle hands on your back. At this moment, you are the happiest in the world!
This night I dream most of all to drown in your arms. So that our passion spreads throughout the room, and our bodies join in a love dance.
I can not wait anymore! I want to get bogged down in you like in a swamp. Kiss, caress, love, press - I'm all yours!

A message to a soldier

What to write to a pleasant man in the army:

My beloved soldier, you are the most amazing thing that happened to me in my life!
The army is not honey, but I will try to brighten up your gray everyday life. If you want, I will be your air or sun. I promise to wake up at dawn, warming with pure love. The service will end one day and I will become the happiest person in the world!
Instead of you, now there is separation by my side. It eats into the heart every night and does not allow breathing without pain. Come soon, I'm so looking forward to this meeting!
I cannot smile without you, my soul rejoices only at the thought of a joint future. I'm waiting for demobilization, as a real miracle!
Recently, I stopped noticing the beauty of the world around me. I think only about you.
There was less sparkle in my eyes. And all because they do not see you ... But I will wait for your arrival and will not let you go anywhere else!
Longing plays on the strings of my heart. But it believes you will be back soon.
So I want to touch you now, I whisper words of love, as if in delirium, your smell remained on my fingers. I kiss, hug, really look forward to.
I dream of waking up and seeing your army uniform hanging neatly on the back of a chair.
Separation became a real torture for me. I'm waiting for the moment when I will inhale you like air.

What you shouldn't write: typical mistakes girls make

It is important for every woman to remember the most common mistakes when communicating with her beloved so that the relationship does not fall apart:

Major women's misconceptions	Description of errors
Sending messages too often	It is important to establish a framework for communication so as not to seem annoying. It is best if the initiative comes from the chosen one.
Smile abuse	They will quickly lose their relevance. It is appropriate to insert them only in highly important sentences.
Long correspondence	No need to bother a man with empty talk. You can ask how his mood or write a couple (no more) sentimental messages. Your partner is more likely to respond to every message. But this does not mean that it is convenient for him to communicate at the moment.
Long do not reply to SMS	This method is good when a serious relationship has not yet begun. But at the stage of a stable love relationship, a negative reaction may follow.
Discuss important things in correspondence	It is more expedient to discuss problems in relationships or even break them off in person. By sending such a letter, you can be considered a stupid and weak woman.

It's easy to write a cute message to your loved one. But the man's heart will be filled with gratitude, which will bring a lot of pleasant emotions to both the girl and the partner.

Author: Ekaterina Pisarenko

Article design: Anna Vinnitskaya

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